We
hoped for a definitive sign so that we wouldn’t have to make the
decision. It didn’t happen. Today, by pre-arrangement, we said good-bye
to our beloved pet Nellie. It seemed wrong to make such an appointment and then wait a day or two for the appointed hour while life went as usual. But of course, it wasn't "as usual" at all. It’s not a unique situation, so out of respect for you and your story,
I won’t carry on – much.
A young Nellie |
In
2013, when Nellie was in her tenth year, while still in apparent good health, she decided to retire from hunting. This
was a dilemma since Mike wasn’t ready to hang it up. Enter Bess, and
we became a two-dog family, which Mike justified by saying that the average
lifespan of a German Shorthair Pointer is 11 years. We wouldn’t have two dogs
for long, he said. I immediately thought of “The Pearl Necklace,” an episode of
Alfred Hitchcock Presents, where an old man convinces a young woman to
marry him because he doesn’t have long to live. No spoiler alert.
Anyway,
Nellie continued in slow age-related decline but basic good health. Initially,
the worst of it was that she lost her hearing, but of course, the age issues
were progressive. Today she was 15 ½.
I
recall that summer of 2015 when Nellie sustained a rattlesnake bite at the
farm. Mike drove her to our vet, who suggested he take her to the vet clinic at
WSU. “Hey,” said Mike, “she’s gonna be 12 in a couple of weeks. We’ll just wait
this out.” We made Nellie as comfortable as we could on the kitchen floor at
the farm.
Learning
of the bite, daughter Hallie called on “Face Time,” to ask if she should come to say
good-bye. I told her I didn’t think it was the end.
“Show
her to me,” insisted Hallie, so I carried my phone over to Nellie so that she
could “Face Time” with Hallie. She was panting and had loss of appetite, but
she came through that experience with her usual grace.
Hallie & Nellie during a camping trip |
Mike
has worked with German Shorthair Pointers for 50 years, and in recent years, the breed has been improved. Nellie was the
first who truly related to people and became a family member. As son Clint put
it, “Nellie was the first dog Mom liked.” I would say that she was as much my
dog as Mike’s, and in these latter years, perhaps even more. KW
“No
Fear Nellie”
9/11/2003
– 3/13/ 2019
[Photos of Nellie abound in my files, but today I show two that Hallie shared as her favorites.]
Saying goodbye to beloved pets is never, never easy. Nellie had a wonderful life and she thanks you both for that.
ReplyDeleteThank you for that wonderful thought, Chris. I believe Nellie loved being with us and that she just didn't want to go.
ReplyDeleteGoodbye dear old Nellie. Your expertise in the field was equaled only by your gentle and loving nature in the home. You will always be remembered by all in our family as well as the many care facility residents you served as a therapy dog.
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