Tuesday, December 3, 2024

ADVENT 2024 -- TUESDAY, DECEMBER 3

People can do things like this. No use to let everything go because of hard times. – Ina

This morning, Ina and Shirley took turns ironing beside the old wood range where they heated the sad irons. They smoothed the clothes quickly with the heavy irons before they cooled and had to be reheated. No steam iron here! The clothes were mostly cotton, of course, so prior to ironing they sprinkled them with water, rolled them up, and placed them under a towel to keep them moist.

Lest you think sprinkling the clothes is easy, let me say that I could never do it to suit my mother. “You’re getting them too wet,” she would admonish. “Now watch me do it.” Finally, she just did it herself. Apparently sprinkling the clothes was an art and one that is lost today. Not only don’t we sprinkle, but we barely iron.

As Ina works, I see the resolve on her face. They would go on as they always had, and she would have plenty of food, light, and warmth – just no ready cash for extras. As for Christmas, though, it didn’t matter. She would look into her storehouse and find gifts for those she loved. She would send a jar of “fancy” strawberry jam to son Earle and his wife Bernice. They had failed to put up any this year, and Earle had been so disappointed. She smiled to think how happy he would be to receive the jam.

And she had pieced a quilt top for daughter Pearl and would send a fountain pen, a premium (or bonus) provided with the purchase of seed (or was it feed?) to grandson Stanley. And together, she and Shirley would make doll clothes for the rag doll that Santa would bring little granddaughter Shirley Jean, now six years old. And every box would include beans and popcorn grown right here on the farm.

Yes, it would all work out beautifully, Ina smiled to herself. No use to let everything go because of hard times. KW

Monday, December 2, 2024

ADVENT 2024 -- DECEMBER 2


I’m writing madly to get this in the mail. Someone has just dropped in for a hunt, and it’s wash day, too, so excuse mistakes and write as soon as you can. Yours as ever to the last and all the love in the world. – Mother (Ina)

Thanksgiving was late this year which always makes the time before Christmas seem shorter, probably because it IS shorter. It didn’t matter as much to Ina as it does to me. She had been getting ready for Christmas anyway, and she would continue.

You see, Ina’s Christmas focus was on gifts, and in that time and place – the remote central Idaho farming community of the 1930s – she did not have the distractions we have today. Christmas happened at Christmastime, meaning that they brought in the tree and decorated the house on Christmas Eve. Ina’s anticipation ran high during the December days prior to Christmas, and then they enjoyed a holiday week between Christmas and New Years. KW

Sunday, December 1, 2024

ADVENT 2024 -- SUNDAY, DEC. 1

Out of the welter of Christmas plans comes this letter and how I wish I were coming to you with it. I hope and trust you’ll be with friends and be cheered and happy. – Ina

It’s Sunday, December 1, 1931. Dinner is over, the dishes are done, and the kitchen is tidy once more. Ina now rests in her rocking chair near the dining room window, her open Bible in her lap. I have already surpassed her age by nearly 15 years, but I feel no match for her wisdom and depth.

As was her custom on a Sunday afternoon, Ina pondered the scripture presented at that morning’s church service, watching as the stubble fields turn a lovely shade of deep pink in reflection of a vibrant sunset. Ina never tired of these “magnificent effects,” and neither do I. Daylight is fast fading, and it’s already too dark to read the fine print of her Bible, so she sits deep in thought.

Eventually though, the cares of the day stole in upon her. The Depression as well as loss of access to market had impoverished them, but Ina resolved to put these worries behind her, at least until spring. A sort of spirit of battle came over her, and she felt the challenge to outwit circumstances. “We’re going to have a big time this hard times Christmas,” she resolved. “Everything looks different when you look at it from Robinson Crusoe’s standpoint, surrounded by a sea of depression, and things show up at a more real value. We appreciate the actual value of things. So, we’re going to have a very merry Christmas.” KW