The other day, someone said to me that everyone
deserves an obituary. It seems disrespectful, she said, when one is not provided. Coincidentally,
I had been thinking along the same lines because I discovered that no obituary was written for my aunt, Myrtle Dobson. It would have fallen to my
dad and Aunt Ethel (her siblings) to provide the information, and to be fair, at the time of
her passing, they might have felt there wasn’t much to say. Or, maybe they
didn’t know how to state the facts of her life in a positive way. Or, they
might have been honoring Aunt Lynn’s wishes.
In the last 25 years or so, obituary style has
changed from a few cold facts written by a newspaper staffer to an
affectionate tribute written by family or friends, so with affection, I have
written an obituary for Aunt Lynn.
MYRTLE IRENE DOBSON
Myrtle Irene (Lynn) Dobson died at the Orofino
Convalescent Center on December 28, 1971, at the age of 77. She had been in ill
health for several years.
Myrtle was born on Little Bear Ridge near Troy,
Idaho, on March 28, 1894, the second of the six children of Julian and Ina
Dickson Dobson. She was just two years old when the family homesteaded in the Gilbert community south of Orofino, Idaho, where she grew up.
Myrtle’s early schooling was at the one-room
Dickson Schoolhouse at Gilbert. She later graduated from Lewiston High School with
the class of 1918. A talented sketch artist and amateur photographer, in the
1930s she worked for photography studios in Portland, Oregon, retouching and
tinting photographs. During World War II, she was an office worker.
A farm girl at heart, Myrtle was always willing to
return to the family farm and assist her parents, but she was also at home in
Portland and Seattle where she took advantage of the cultural and educational
benefits of city life.
In the 1950s, Myrtle returned
to the family farm to care for her mother. These were productive years in which Myrtle
wrote a history of her mother’s life and organized family memorabilia while also
maintaining the house and gardens. After her mother's passing in 1957, she served as caregiver / companion for several individuals. Later, she cared for her brother, Earle
Dobson, at his home in Nezperce until ill health forced them both to move to
the Orofino Convalescent Center.
An independent spirit, Myrtle never married. She
was a loved member of her extended family and will be missed. She is survived
by her brothers, Vance Dobson and Earle Dobson, of Orofino; her sisters, Ethel
Robinson of Clarkston and Shirley Shockley of Seattle; one nephew and four
nieces. She was predeceased by her parents and her older sister, Eva Pearl
Sanders. KW
5 comments:
Oh, that is so lovely! Well done!!!
Thank you, Chris.
You did a wonderful job in outlining her life and the good things she did. Thank you for that great tribute.
I think you knew her better than I did, Chuck. I don't remember a lot of interaction with Aunt Lynn. She had her disappointments. We all do.
Mother said that the old farm families used to single out one child to be the one who would return and help them in old age. I don't know if that's true, or if it just seemed to be true. Anyway, she was close to her mother (Ina), I think, and she did return to help at the farm. If Ina did have expectations of Myrtle, it's likely another reason that she didn't find her calling.
Agree with the others--this was very sweet. I'm glad she has an obituary now.
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